The Trials of this Life

Everything in this society is an invitation to overwhelming emotions and violence.

It takes a lot not give in.

Here's a nugget of Zen wisdom: "When the mind is still, everything else can move around it and it can remain unaffected."

But how easy is that?

The neighbor's kid has gone out of his way to mow down the peas in my garden when he was trimming the weeds. He also took a dump in my compost pile, possibly making it toxic.

Last Father's Day he gave me what I like to think of as a "Happy Fucking Father's Day!" gift, by breaking fluorescent light bulbs all over my back porch.

It would be easy to be affected by these things, but he's obviously acting out of his own confusion. His behavior has nothing to do with me.

What would be the other option? Arguments? Violence? Getting even? All of that is short sighted and would just make my own life worse.

My brother recently decided to leave his family (wife and three kids). Once again, it would be easy to accept this invitation to have overwhelmingly negative feelings-- anger toward him and sorrow for his family and the rest of my family. I also could feel a lot of sorrow for him and confusion about what he's doing, and what possible motives he could have for doing such a thing.

But I have put a comfortable distance between myself and my family for precisely this reason. I would do no good by wading into a situation where I can only experience more sorrow.

I have to let him live his life. Even if he's harming others.

I have to let the neighbor kid live his life, even if he's making some seriously bad choices and targeting innocent people.

Sometimes this approach feels dangerously close to "not caring." But where does caring a lot get you? It gets you burned. It's better to live peaceably and avoid other peoples' drama.

There's always more than enough drama to go around. Why create anymore?

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So, in the end, there's more than a little sorrow involved in just letting folks go about their business, making a mess of their lives and hurting those around them. But I will not be like them. I will remain still.

How To Get Full Length Video Files on Your Windows PC or PS3

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Just in case you were wondering, it is possible to get a full-length video file (from any DVD) on your PC or PS3.

This is probably true for the Mac and other gaming platforms, but I don't use them, so you'll have to look elsewhere for advice on those systems. You can also do this in Linux, but you'll have to figure it out yourself.

The first thing you should know is that a DVD is made up of VOB files. These are the actual video files. You can find them on the DVD in the VIDEO_TS folder.

When they're on the DVD they're read-only.

What you want to do is search for some free tools to copy these onto your PC hard drive. If you look for DVD Shrink or some similar application, you should quickly find something that will do this for you.

Once the files are on your drive, you can erase all the IFO and BUP files-- you don't need them.

The VOB format is a kissing cousin to the MPEG format, so you can actually play them directly (using VLC Player or some other similar free media player).

In addition, if you simply rename every file with a VOB extension so that it has an MPG extension, most video editing programs will recognize it and allow you to edit it. For example, rename VTS_01_1.VOB to VTS_01_1.MPG and it will behave like any other video file.

However, most movies are made of several VOB files in a row. If you don't want to open three files to play one movie, then you should join them together into one MPG file.

There are application to do this, many of them free, but the simplest and most elegant method is to use the "copy" command.

In Windows, go to the command prompt (click on the start menu, click "Run" and then type in "cmd"). 

Once there, navigate to the directory where your files are (use the "cd" command to change directories).

Now you are going to copy and combine the files into one large video file. The format is:

copy /b VTS_01_1.VOB + VTS_01_2.VOB + VTS_01_3.VOB MY_NEW_VIDEO_FILE.MPG

What this does is copy (in binary mode) the three files to a new file while combining them together. The last entry (with no plus sign preceding it) is the name of the new, larger file (which will play the movie all the way through).

The capitals are not necessary, but DVD files are named in all caps, so I do the same. You can name your new file anything you want, as long as the extension is MPG or mpg.

In addition, if part of the file name is the same on the files you are combining (in this case, VTS_01_ is the same for all of them), you can use a wild card symbol (the asterisk, *) in place of the part of the name that is the same. For example, the same files could be combined by typing:

copy /b *1.VOB + *2.VOB + *3.VOB MY_NEW_VIDEO_FILE.MPG

This saves typing and works exactly the same.

Now you have a single video file with a complete movie on it. This should, of course, be a movie that you're transferring off of your camcorder and to which you have complete rights. Maybe its a movie you bought and are simply backing up in case the kids scratch it up, yadda, yadda, disclaimer and so forth. If that is the case, some movie execs and the FBI still might not be happy, so I am taking this opportunity to clearly state that I do not support any copyright infringement, however innocuous. You are on your own.

In any case, I find it convenient to have all my videos arranged on my computer or PS3, rather than searching through boxes or wherever else I have them stored. So, all other considerations aside, this is good to know.

Having a list of files certainly takes up less space than a bunch of DVD cases and it can be quicker to access the movie you want without spending time searching.

The Playstastion 3 can play MPG files and its easy enough to copy a file, such as MY_NEW_VIDEO_FILE.MPG, onto the Playstation 3 hard drive and play it from there, eliminating the need to pop in the DVD or take out your game to play the DVD.

That's the extent of my knowledge, so only softball questions please. For all other information, get on Google like I do, and figure it out for yourself.

Google Voice blooper -- "drive it in the ass"

You know what-- Google Voice does it's best...there are just so many voicemail messages about anal reaming, though, right?

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These little mistakes are understandable. I mean, how is the computer supposed to know to avoid phrases like "in the ass"? 

So when my co-worker says "I can't see very well to drive and I didn't ask anybody..." it sounds just like all those other messages where folks are driving things into asses and such. You know... everyday hijinks. 

 

 

Acorns for the hungry...

I'm not really at a point in my life where I *have* to gather and forage to survive, but I've always been curious about acorns.

They are a nutrient-rich, free source of food that we moderns don't really utilize. But the Californians that went before us ate them by the basket-load. So why pass up a free thing?

Maybe it's the work involved. I mean, we're not squirrels. We have "important" things to do. Maybe it's the taste?

Anyway, I decided to give it a try.

There is plenty of information online about how to gather, process and prepare them and I happen to have some free time.

So I went to the parking lot next to a local library, sat down on the curb and started work (gathering and shelling the suckers).

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An hour's work....

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My report:

I didn't make a big operation out of it (why gather thousands of acorns if I'm not even sure that I want to spend the time shelling them?);

I was in a public place, gathering acorns, but I didn't get a lot of attention from passersby;

I was waiting for the library to open anyway, so it was a decent way to pass the time; 

I was able to watch the birds and enjoy the sunshine while I waited;

My thumb got pretty roughed-up;

All-in-all it wasn't a bad experience. 

However, I still don't know how much of this kind of work is necessary to get enough acorns to make it through a year (I assume the early Californians would stockpile them, or process and store the flour) or even to make a single batch of acorn mush.

I still haven't tried grinding them up into flour. I assume a food processor can be used (rather than a grinding rock). In any case, I'll report any progress I make and see how far I can go with this.

Anybody up for some acorn-cakes, acorn cookies, acorn mush?

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